Friendships with International Students

Want to learn more about how to build friendships with internationals? Check out this booklet. 

Want to develop or deepen friendships with international friends? Try these quick tips! 

3 Things to Know

1. Most international students would love to have a close American friend, but 40% do not. Friendship in an unfamiliar culture is valuable.
2. You might be the first Christian your international friend has met. Internationals are often open to spiritual conversations.
3. Developing trust takes time and consistent prayer. Internationals often look for relationships that go deeper.

3 Things to Avoid

1. Avoid idioms, jokes, and pop-culture references unless you explain them. Speak at a slower pace; this will greatly increase understanding.
2. Avoid assuming things about your new international friends. They have much they can teach you. Come with a learning posture.
3. Avoid viewing your international friends as a project or ministry. International students need true friendships, and so do you!

3 Things to Try

1. Find where international students gather on campus and go there. Think network maps: try international clubs, cultural events, or pick-up sports games.
2. Use open-ended questions in conversations to build relationships and share your faith. Reveal early on that you are a Christian.
3. Internationals cherish reciprocity and hospitality. Ask what they need, offer practical help, and learn from the. Eg: Swap rides for cooking lessons.