Published 8 Nov 2012
Important but Not Urgent
A reflection on focusing on what’s truly important (not just urgent) — prioritizing meaningful work, relationships, and spiritual growth.

Years ago, I read Stephen Covey's influential book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, and it helped shape my life as a young college grad. One of the best things from that book is his quadrant chart:
- Spiritual disciplines: regular times of personal prayer and study, being part of a Bible study group, taking retreat time to reflect on your life and vocation
- Taking care of your health: eating well, exercising, scheduling an annual physical exam
- Nurturing relationships: calling your mom, writing letters to friends, sending packages, getting together with friends for coffee
- Ordering your financial life: creating a budget, discerning your plans for donating money, planning ahead for big expenditures
It's never easy to take this kind of time when you could be _____ (studying! writing! reading! working!), but it is almost always beneficial.
What kinds of things fall into your Quadrant II category? Do you have plans to address them?
Ann is the Women Scholars and Professionals Podcast host and the interim editor for The Well. She has worked for InterVarsity Christian Fellowship since 1997, exploring her interests in community, spiritual formation, and writing. Ann has a BM in Music Education from Northwestern University and lives in Chicago, Illinois with one husband, two spunky teenage daughters, and three snuggly cats. You’ll often find Ann baking sweet treats in the kitchen while listening to a podcast or audiobook.
