Published 21 Feb 2025
Supporting one another
Exploring our power in tough situations
A blog post Women Scholars and Professionals

We’ve heard the horror stories, and perhaps you’ve experienced it yourself: the trauma of working under an abusive advisor. Whether their tactics involve manipulation, verbal abuse, overly demanding requirements, or plain bullying, we want you to know that there are options and support. This survival story from an anonymous grad student offers guidance and hope, as do these lengthy responses from our mentors at The Well. No matter what your circumstance, we want those suffering under abusive advisors to have the resources and the networks to hold on to both your calling and your dignity. Don’t hesitate to reach out to us if you need support.
“Not knowing what else to do, I followed the traditional recourse of beleaguered graduate students — I worked longer hours…. I ran experiments for 10-14 hours a day and worked Saturdays and some Sundays. I hoped that if I worked more hours I’d eventually get experiments that worked, or at least I’d prove I was committed. Neither happened.”
It’s not uncommon for power to become twisted into something dangerous when left unexamined and wielded carelessly. We’re reminded of Mary Kate Morse’s writings on human flourishing and the role of power in diffusing the experience of fear. Morse helps us to remember that even when faced with impossible problems, we are called not to fear, but instead to remember the power of the Spirit in our lives. Let’s help one another to remember the good news together.
“As women professionals and academics, we often live in the world of the mind and neglect to observe what really sabotages our ability to flourish: fear. When we are afraid, we are less able to love. When we are motivated by fear and not love, we use reason to protect our self-interests. Christ shows us a better way.”


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